Episode 5: Mental Health & The Holidays
In Episode 5 of A Way Forward: Conversations on Mental Health, presented by Beem Credit Union, host Jessica Samuels is joined by Mike Gawliuk, CEO of CMHA Kelowna for a conversation on Mental Health & The Holidays. The holiday season brings unique joys and challenges. In this episode, we dive into practical strategies for managing mental health and well-being during a time of heightened expectations, consumerism, and emotional triggers.
Key Topics Covered:
Key Topics Covered:
1. High Expectations During the Holidays
- The "perfect holiday" narrative: Balancing societal pressure and personal priorities.
- Strategies for managing expectations:
- Focus on what the holidays mean to you.
- Delegate responsibilities when hosting.
- Accept imperfection: It’s okay if the ornaments aren’t perfectly placed.
2. Setting Boundaries
- Healthy boundaries ensure you protect your mental well-being.
- Tips for effective boundary-setting:
- Be clear and kind in communication.
- Examples: "I can join for dinner but not stay the whole evening."
- Remember, boundaries aren’t inherently negative—they’re a tool for self-care.
3. Overindulgence: Food, Alcohol, and Spending
- Awareness and moderation are key to avoiding post-holiday regret:
- Spending: Set a budget and stick to it. Consider alternative gifting options, like Secret Santa or giving your time.
- Eating & Drinking: Stay mindful of consumption and its impact on mental health.
- Maintain routines, like exercise, to balance indulgences.
4. Loneliness and Grief During the Holidays
- Loneliness is common during the season, especially when facing grief or being away from loved ones.
- Ideas to combat loneliness:
- Volunteer in your community.
- Reach out to friends or family through calls or cards.
- Plan small traditions for yourself, like a Christmas Day walk.
- Managing grief during the holidays:
- Allow yourself to feel emotions and reflect on positive memories.
- Share your thoughts with a trusted friend or loved one.
- Have a plan for anniversaries or milestones that may trigger grief.
5. Consumerism and Financial Stress
- The holiday season amplifies the pressure to spend, especially with Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and gift-giving traditions.
- Strategies to manage financial stress:
- Be mindful of spending limits.
- Focus on meaningful, non-monetary gifts (e.g., quality time).
- Prepare for post-holiday realities to avoid the "holiday hangover."
Key Takeaways:
- Manage expectations and focus on what truly matters to you during the holidays.
- Set boundaries to protect your emotional and mental well-being.
- Moderation in spending, eating, and drinking can prevent regrets later.
- Combat loneliness through connection, volunteering, and small personal rituals.
- Grief can be heightened during holidays—acknowledge it and seek support when needed.
**Resources:
https://www.interiorhealth.ca/stories/10-ways-focus-your-mental-wellness-during-holidays
https://www.interiorhealth.ca/stories/10-ways-focus-your-mental-wellness-during-holidays
https://cmha.ca/news/five-ways-to-protect-your-mental-health-this-holiday/
**General Mental Health Resources:**
If you or someone you know is struggling, CMHA Kelowna's Find Help Now page has a list of emergency and non-emergency resources for individuals of any age. CMHA Kelowna - Find Help Now
**General Mental Health Resources:**
If you or someone you know is struggling, CMHA Kelowna's Find Help Now page has a list of emergency and non-emergency resources for individuals of any age. CMHA Kelowna - Find Help Now
